Highlights from the boards for the week of Sept 15th – Sept 21st:
Why Implicitly Trust OBs?… (145 Replies)
Why do you implicitly trust OBs so much when OBs are surgeons that are trained in surgery first and normal birth second? I want a surgeon if something goes wrong, but if nothing goes wrong I do not want a surgeon, I want a trained professional who will assist me in labor and delivery. I am not trying to start a flame war. I just want to understand the logic behind the mistrust of midwives and the trust in doctors for normal uncomplicated birth.
My Unathletic 8 yo Notices His Lack of Skill… (21 Replies)
DS is very unathletic though he says he likes to play sports. problem is that he has started to notice he’s much less skilled than his friends. Anyone btdt? DH thinks we should get him a few one-on-one lessons so he won’t feel such a difference. Need advice.
Intimidated by Put-Together Moms… (16 Replies)
I am intimidated by fancy, skinny, put-together moms - working or not. I feel like I can’t compete. This whole school thing is scaring me. DH comes from money - but we aren’t anywhere near where he was when he was growing up, financially - and he is not phased whatsoever by the school app process.
School Journaling Too Personal… (28 Replies)
My 8 year old child’s English teacher is asking his class to keep a journal that poses very personal questions for my child to answer each day. Each day, it has gotten more personal, and today he was told to discuss a time when he was angry at his parents and give details. Each day, the kids have been asked to talk about negative experiences (talk about when you were embarrassed, talk about when you got in trouble). DH and I were not raised in the U.S. so we don’t know if this is a normal project for DCs this age. His teacher said students don’t have to show it to anyone but their teacher. DS has been left in an upset mood after writing these entries. What would you do?
NYC Kids Mean and Superior… (101 Replies)
Just because a kid looks you in the eye, shakes hand to say hello and picks up his toys at clean up time doesn’t make him a well behaved kid. I have seen many NYC kids having these good, basic manners and on the contrary being mean; tongue-in-cheek comments; having airs of superiority and a loss of innocence. Who is to blame?
Miscellany
No Organic Apple Orchards in NYC? (73 Replies)
Would You Leave DB with Babysitter at Nice Resort? (17 Replies)
What Can I Do to Gain DD’s Trust Back? (12 Replies)