A Nightline report on a controversial condition known as “food neophobia” (a.k.a. pathological pickiness) has parents talking today, arguing over the condition is a real problem, or just a new name for a normal childhood phase.
This goes way beyond ‘Eat your carrots,’ says host Cynthia McFadden, before introducing the family of Erin, a seven-year-old who is literally starving herself due to her fear of new foods. The report shows her struggling through dinner, plowing happily through breakfast, and then, heartbreakingly, taking place in a five-day Duke University eating disorders clinic with one simple goal: to be able to eat pizza.
The list of foods Erin will eat will sound familiar to parents: breakfast foods (pancakes, French toast), apples and a few other fruits, grilled American cheese sandwiches (prepared a certain way), chips, fries, crackers, and peanut butter (but only if it’s creamy, and only certain brands). No meat. No vegetables.
“People say that I’m making her special meals all the time for her and it’s my fault,” says Erin’s beleagured-looking mother. “It’s because I’m catering to her whim, and if I would show her who was boss, she would eat. And the fact of the matter is, she won’t.”
Nightline also interviewed Nancy Zucker, who studies eating disorders at Duke University and runs clinics for those with eating disorders severe enough to negatively affect their lives.
“Every kid goes through food fads and phases,” says Dr. Zucker. “Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches day after day after day, macaroni and cheese. That’s just normal. A picky eater is one for whom that variability just doesn’t shift.”
On the boards, posters vacillated between mockery and sympathy. “Why are we so obsessed with labels?” wondered one poster. A mom who related to the Nightline story said “It’s hard—everyone accuses me of giving him junk food and/or not really trying to offer new things. And we have tried it ALL.” A poster responded “put food in front of him (food you think is right). Don’t give snacks/junk. Wait. He won’t starve himself.”
When does pickiness cross the line into an eating disorder? And what can parents do if their child has an issue?