Highlights from the boards for the week of Sept 8th – Sept 14th:
Want to Quit Working but I’m a Role Model… (14 Replies)
I just got the green light from DH to quit my job. I have one of the best position any woman in my Company in the last 10 years has achieved. I suddenly feel guilty about the junior women behind me…they tell me all the time I am a role model. I am now confused. My kids are in elementary school this has nothing to do with being a SAHM because they are in school 8-3 everyday.
Halloween Disadvantage… (19 Replies)
Is my 2.5 yo at a disadvantage because we haven’t introduced tv/videos yet? I was looking at a catalogue of Halloween costumes today and realizing that he doesn’t know what a cowboy is. Or a shark. Or a gnome, fairy, knight, etc. Or is that typical of the age?
DD Controlling Her Weight by Throwing Food Away… (45 Replies)
DD, age 12, became focused within the past year on controlling her weight. She’s always been slightly heavy, so this is a good thing, and she is at a great weight now. Her primary approach is portion control. When going to a restaurant, she’s started to cut whatever is served in half and eat only half. I think this is fine once in a while, but I do find it wasteful to get an appetizer and entree, or soup and sandwich, and purposefully discard half. I told her she could split a sandwich with me or her sister, or skip an appetizer, or save the other half to eat at home for another meal, but I don’t want her routinely wasting food. DH got very upset, says we can afford it, and he doesn’t agree. I say it’s socially irresponsible to purposefully waste food, regardless of what you can afford.
Should I Tell Kids Grandpa is Very Ill?… (13 Replies)
I have 2 young elementary school kids who’s grand father is very ill and they have no idea. When should I tell them? should they go to the funeral? They have never been around death and I’m not sure how to deal.
Convince My DW to See Therapist for Anger Management… (7 Replies)
DH here. How do you convince your wife to seek out anger management or at least see a therapist if she does not believe in such things and rather wants everybody around her (me and the kids) to suck it up instead (because “that’s who she is”)? Do I have to threaten with separation and give her an ultimatum and see what happens (oh, and I already know what will happen: she will not give in and run away first)? Stick it out until the kids move out so that I can deal with this without the need to think about what’s going to happen with the children?
Miscellany
Kids Menu Causes Generation of Picky Eaters (65 Replies)
Does She Have Sensory Issues (21 Replies)
18 Month Old to Preschool for My Sanity (10 Replies)