With your 401K and disposable income both heading south, it may not seem like the time to party. But you can’t let junior down when her best friend just celebrated her second birthday with a “small gathering” of 100 in a wing at the Met. Below are some ways to ensure that your little darling has a happy birthday without spending thousands on cringe-worthy entertainers.
One Singular Sensation: Babies
A first birthday is all about the photo op. Your kid sure as heck isn’t going to remember this party, so keep it simple. Spend $25 for a park permit and host the soiree in Central Park. Supply blankets, some large playground balls and plenty of bubbles for guests. Forget the chichi bakeries with beautiful confections that taste like cardboard. Order a cake from Food Emporium — shockingly delicious and adorable. As for favors, buy a few bags of basic bath toys — ducks, pirates, dinosaurs — and hand out one to each kid.
Terrible Twos Plus: Toddlers
Instead of hosting a costly fiesta at your child’s dance studio or play gym, hire his instructor to run a class in your building’s party room or the local park (remember the permit). Many of these teachers are recent college grads and/or out-of-work actors who are happy to earn $150 for an hour of work. Bake a few dozen cupcakes and have kids decorate them with sprinkles and colored sugar mixes. As guests bid adieu, let them choose an item from the “Boodle Bag” — a pillowcase or decorative sack with small wrapped presents like books or inexpensive toys.
Small City Slickers: Pre-Schoolers
Keep in mind that many of those spectacular party venues are merely taking a basic idea and slapping an expensive price tag on it. So DIY, and host a pizza-making party at a local neighborhood joint. Have the dough ready for kids to toss on the sauce, cheese, pepperoni, etc. To entertain the masses while the meal cooks, offer a quick and easy art project (try Oriental Trading for supplies). Then, chill out with an ice cream cake from Chinatown Ice Cream Factory or Maggie Moos.
Pace yourself. You’ve still got the Sweet 16 to think about.